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sex

Does your libido rise as you get older?

by Gabrielle Lichterman on July 7, 2010

Feel that as the years go by, your libido is getting more intense? If so, you’re not alone. Women between the ages of 27-45 tend to have a heightened sex drive and engage in more exciting sexual activities, according to just-released research out of the University of Texas at Austin and published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences.

In the study, the researchers split 827 women into three groups: high fertility (ages18-26), low fertility (ages 27-45) and menopausal (ages 46 and up). The respondents answered an online questionnaire about their sexual attitudes and behavior.

Of all three groups, the women between the ages of 27 and 45 (the low fertility group) were more likely to experience: [more…]

Hormone contraceptives up your risk of sexual problems

by Gabrielle Lichterman on May 6, 2010

For decades, women have complained that their hormone contraception was interfering with their sex life, lowering their libido, making it difficult to achieve orgasm or causing dryness or pain during intercourse. And, for decades, many doctors dismissed those concerns.

Now a study of over 1,000 women published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reveals these complaints were right. According to the results, women taking hormone contraceptives in any form (pill, patch, etc.) are at the highest risk of female sexual dysfunction (FSD), suggesting that the synthetic hormones block your body’s natural sexual response.

Now that doesn’t mean you should go without contraception if you don’t want to conceive. In fact, women using non-hormonal birth control methods (such as condoms and a non-hormonal IUD) were at lowest risk for FSD—more than women not using any contraception at all. The likely reason is that the fear of getting pregnant during unprotected sex leads to stress that understandably makes it difficult to enjoy the intimacy.

I’ll admit that I’m a longtime fan of non-hormonal contraception methods since they allow you the freedom of safe sex without having to put chemicals into your body. I recommend using condoms with spermicide lubricant for short-term partners and the non-hormonal IUD ParaGard for long-term, monogomous relationships. Avoid the Sponge unless you’re using it as a backup method for condoms since it has a much lower effectiveness rate, about 84% to 89%, which is way too low for my liking. And, unless you’re extremely diligent and don’t mind skipping sex on the days in your cycle when soaring testosterone makes it most enjoyable, I’d avoid the rhythm method as well.

[photo: Katie Tegtmeyer]